May 19, 2007...5:25 pm
Blue Sky Thinking
I’m in America. I am, really.
I feel okay telling you this - even the crazies - because America is quite big.
There is this man called Mr Blue Sky. I wrote a bit about him before. He’s older than me, more experienced. Clever. Writes the prettiest emails without using caps and with an elusive kind punctuation I think he might have invented to seduce me.
He is - and I have said this before about other men, but I really do mean it this time - the greatest submissive in the world. His one flaw is the part where he has selfishly decided to live on a different continent from me. Although, catch me at the right angle and I may tell you that that’s just another bit of his perfect.
But right now, we are on the same continent.
He also knows about and reads this blog so writing that about him is really quite embarrassing.
I’m not here to meet him. I’m here for work. We did talk about trying to marry the two. But I really am stupid busy and the way I feel about him, meeting him without a clear month and a suite booked in the nearest palace of pain (okay, hotel room with *me* in it) would just be annoying.
And you know, the sad truth is, the world is not *arranged* so I can have so much perverted unnatural sex I collapse on the floor a spent desiccated husk. I would have noticed.
We tell each other things. That might sound lame, but it is really very nice. I do start a lot of relationships through online, but I am not one for cybering about. I don’t usually make advances to men in other countries, because I don’t see the point unless you are going to be within spanking distance within a few weeks. This whole Blue Sky thing happened by accident.
But I tell you all this as a long way around to telling you that I am lacking a proper update today. But, as it involves very little work on my part whatsoever, I do invite you to peruse my archive. Which is full of good and clever things about how femdom elevates women while at the same time grinding them into the dirt, which is, if nothing else, quite remarkable.
And hence – my remarks.
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Or go visit Hot Female Dominant Utopia. Why I picked to go to America instead of there really is a mystery to me


15 Comments
May 19, 2007 at 6:27 pm
I’m not typically a big fan of America, but it seems we do have a number of good things here.
When I’m on the road, I like to listen to podcasts. Since you are now on the road, let me point you over to one of my new pet projects, a podcast all about kink. And of course, you’ve already been mentioned in each episode, because you’re just that much a rabble-rouser.
(I apologize in advance for the shoddy recording quality.)
May 19, 2007 at 6:36 pm
rabble *arouser*
May 20, 2007 at 12:46 am
Considering I am someone who has worked for a few American companies and earned a fair bit of money out of America, I really don’t like the place - It has been ruined by the people who I find materialistic and small-minded to a point that even makes me feel well rounded. Still, the last thing you need is for me to turn your blog into an anti-american rant. I would rather express my vitriol over your supposed ideals about equality. I am aware that you haven’t got the time to make your updates while you are on business, (what did they run out of bossy, overweight, self-opinionated women in America - might be worth going back after all)! Surely you have time to meet one of your devoted admirers while you are there. It is a big country but so easy to get around if you have a few dollars. Who knows you and Mr Blue Sky could be the modern day Romeo & Juliet!
May 20, 2007 at 1:39 am
Oh Toni
I never knew you cared!
May 20, 2007 at 3:00 am
*waves hi*
Welcome to America!
You can get more work accomplished in the U.S. than you can in HFDU, look at that way.
Right?
hugs,E
May 20, 2007 at 11:13 am
Distance, national boundaries, passports and all that suddenly become hateful when they keep you from someone.
I always swore I’d never consider a long distance love affair. Then Alexandra and I came together and snatching what time we can out of a year is worth it.
But she doesn’t have to work when she is here.
May 20, 2007 at 1:30 pm
Well, Elizabeth, that does depend what you count as an accomplishment
May 20, 2007 at 1:31 pm
I’m not really having a long distance love affair. I suppose the situation is that it would be something more if it wasn’t for the distance.
Which is a total assumption, but there you go.
May 20, 2007 at 3:30 pm
Dear bitchy - I recently discovered your blog and have been thoroughly enjoying it. I’m a kinky gay guy in the US Pacific NW. Since I play with other men I had never given any thought to femdom, or what it is or isn’t or should or shouldn’t be. But your arguments make a lot of sense, and the underlying notion that ANY “submission” should be about the Dom’s pleasure certainly rings true no matter what the genders are of the players. You are a very good, and very funny writer. Please keep it up, and know that you have a number of readers cheering for you from this corner of the globe.
Finally, welcome to the US. It is indeed a big place, but if by chance you are near Seattle it would be a pleasure to buy you a drink at one of our leather-friendly gay bars. We even have at least one good local tea shop.
May 20, 2007 at 3:48 pm
Sadly I am nowhere near Seattle, which is a shame as I cannot imagine much that would be nicer than having tea with a kinky sailor boy.
Maybe another time - if you promise to wear the uniform.
BJ x
May 20, 2007 at 10:06 pm
LOL… well sadly I’m not a sailor - not in the navy sense anyway. I do know how to sail - which is actually how I first learned to tie lots of very useful knots. Just stopped at the boat supply store today and bought some new rope in fact. I do have a kinky friend in the army, however, and I’m sure he’d be happy to join us for tea in uniform. Next time.
Until then, safe travels. Here’s a question that I’d be curious to hear your thoughts about in a future post. What are your thoughts about sub bi boys who like to be “forced” by their female doms to suck cock, or to get fucked by the femdom’s male friend(s). I’ve run into a number of bi boys with this fantasy - and I recently had the good fortune to play the part of the male friend in such a scene. It was very hot - and my femdom friend seemed to genuinely get off on it as well.
May 21, 2007 at 4:05 pm
Well I’m sure you can come by a uniform if you need to.
Ack. Forced bi. Yes, it is hot. But it concerns me. There is a lot of cross over between forced bi and forced femme and that whole thing of the guy being humiliated by being forced to be a woman or be gay is kind of gross.
But it is also hot. It needs a post. I have said to guys before that if they really want to get fucked, why not trying going to the gender that has the equipment already attached.
May 22, 2007 at 12:46 am
Travel safely!
May 22, 2007 at 6:06 am
Thank you. Actually I have never done complex stuff like this before. Connecting flights - eep.
Not good if you are neurotic and controlling.
And the tea situation. God. There are no words.
May 22, 2007 at 9:52 am
Man thanks to Seakink I now can’t concentrate :/
Connecting flights and no tea - sounds scary to me, good luck.
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