Entries from February 2008

February 26, 2008

Bitchy Jones, What Have You Done?

You know what I say:
I say, there are as many dominant women as there are submissive men. There are enough for one each. It could all be fine. Bunches of women are more than capable of being turned on by male submission ‘cause it is hot.
But those women aren’t here because they are driven away [...]

February 25, 2008

Naked Man Covered in Blood

It’s something to do with some kind of opera apparently. Don’t ask me, I’m really not that kind of high culture lovin’ dominatrix godesssesssee (sorry - keyboard trouble).
But what is nice is that when he saw me mesmerised by this picture in the paper on Sunday Jack said - Oh, it’s that. That was [...]

February 24, 2008

What is This Thing Called Sadism?

I get turned on hurting people. I get turned on by people letting me hurt them.
Sometimes this seems so fucking freaky I kind of wonder if it can really be true. That maybe I dreamt or imagined something so strange. But it is pretty easy to test such a thing. Say, yesterday I put nipple [...]

February 22, 2008

In the State of Dominatrix

Once I bought it. The myth of what a dominant woman had to be. The thing that wasn’t ever me. I liked the idea of men tied up. Of valiant suffering. Of his pain. Of his sacrifices. Of his power shown not by brutish behaviour but by the thickness of the chains needed to restrain [...]

February 20, 2008

Next to Nothings

It seems to be a truism of any kind of deviant sex that once you start you will only ever want more. This rule doesn’t apply to non-deviant sex, of course. No one warns monogamous married couples to be careful with that every-saturday-night-under-the-covers-with-the-lights-off fumbling because before they know it it’ll be blackout blinds and seventeen [...]

February 15, 2008

Prodom WTFF? hour

“People who don’t understand will compare what I do to prostitution. But it’s nothing like it. It would be much easier to give my body, but I’d never have full sex. Yes, the majority of men do come for sexual gratification (although about 10% don’t, because denying themselves that pleasure is the ultimate torture). Sometimes [...]

February 14, 2008

Because Everyone Knows Work Emails Aren’t Private

Dear Jack
I saw a man on the internetwebs with a 9 inch pen. But really his pen didn’t look much bigger than your pen. I love your pen. I know you think I am biased.
I love your voice almost as much as you pen. Last night your voice made me sneeze. But I think [...]

February 13, 2008

What’s So Fucking Funny?

Over on this post a few weeks ago I made a small mention of the fact that there is a little corner of my brain that really likes the idea of pony boys. I’ll probably never pursue this. Neither Jack not Pan are interested – although both have said they would saddle up if I [...]

February 10, 2008

Jack’s Arm


February 8, 2008

Gay Men Win at Dirty Pretty Pictures. *AGAIN*